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 I am just a busy bee these days.The ABF (load it yourself and they drive) arrived and we are loading it up over the weekend. Then it will go to Don's storage unit and be loaded some more.

I had already packed quite a bit but there is still what we need to carry on a bit of normal life -- cooking, cleaning, laundry, bathing, dressing, all that kind of stuff. And the dog still insists on attention and exercise.

Then Kevin was in a mountain biking accident and wrecked his right shoulder. I did a cooking marathon to take him homemade comfort foods. I took care of his shopping list and did some cleaning for him. He hurt his left arm as well so it's hard for him to do things around the house and he can't drive so I will be taking him doctor appointments on Monday and Tuesday.

Don's son is helping with the heavy lifting.

Don has doctor appointments on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. His kidney stone surgery is scheduled for October 6. Since the closing on the condo is September 29, we will be staying in a hotel room until he can travel. 

If I ever move again it will be by being carried out on a stretcher. 


  1. I can't say as I blame you. You've had an incredibly busy time of it, especially with the health issues on top of the moving. Best of luck to Kevin as he heals, and to Don as he goes through his surgery.

  2. Whenever I have thought about moving, I help someone who is moving and that cures my urge.

  3. I'm so sorry. I say the same thing about moving. I even had people pack and move us and it was horrible, stressful and oh so back breaking. It's in the top 10 things of things not to do and I think that is why so many people tend to stay where they are more than they wish to. Good Luck!

  4. Moving is indeed a challenge. Emotional goodbyes, physical labor, intellectual remembering of details and lists. I sympathize.

  5. What an ordeal! Not just the moving, but the necessary things that still need to be done. I hope I never have to move again.

  6. I sympathize, but when it is all over you will feel refreshed and new.

  7. OH gosh... I'm so sorry, Olga.


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