Margaret at Straight Up -- No Chaser often makes me laugh. Today she wrote about her need for laughter and something that she and Rick call up that gets then laughing every time. It was an incident that is really not funny on the face of it, but the image sure made me laugh.
I have been guilty of inappropriate laughter many times.
I wish someone would just stop me when I decide to research certain subjects.
Gelastic seizures (GS) are a rare form of epilepsy characterized by inappropriate, uncontrolled laughter. They are highly associated with abnormal cognitive development and behavioral problems in patients. NBCI
Pseudobulbar affect (PBA) is a condition that's characterized by episodes of sudden uncontrollable and inappropriate laughing or crying. Pseudobulbar affect typically occurs in people with certain neurological conditions or injuries, which might affect the way the brain controls emotion. Mayo Clinic
It may not be all bad though.
In some situations, inappropriate laughter may be our brain's way of breaking anxiety and tension — a built-in coping mechanism to diffuse bad vibes or stress. ... Nervous laughter could simply be an involuntary and instantaneous attempt at self-prescribed laugh therapy.
And this one:
On the plus side, this is most likely happening because your brain needs to diffuse the anxiety triggered by upsetting things, and therefore you are probably more sensitive, not less, than people who have their shit under control. Use this line, it is likely your best defense.
So, yeah let's go with that last one.
I laughed at the description as well. How could you not? I'm sure she was just feeling too down at that point to see the humour but maybe she sees it now.
ReplyDeleteI recall sitting at my aunt's kitchen table a few hours after my uncle died. There were several of us there, my mom and aunt and a few of the cousins and I, and we started sharing stories about Uncle Bob. I don't recall what they were but at one point, we were all laughing. It felt good to release some of the grief though I'm sure anyone who had seen us would have thought it inappropriate.
Take care, stay well.
Olga, great post!! DH and I were just recently discussing what makes people laugh.... usually it's always something unexpected and/or inappropriate. I checked out that other site you mentioned. Made me laugh more. I do think it's a way we release tension... and that it's good for us. IMO sometimes people can be too sensitive. It's possible to see the humor even in serious situations. And of course timing is important... something might be considered funny later that isn't at all funny at the time.
ReplyDeleteWell, that was pretty funny, I agree.
ReplyDeleteMine usually comes over me at funerals. Trying to suppress inappropriate laughter just makes it worse. I like that more sensitive theory and plan to borrow it.
ReplyDeleteDid your friend ever see the humor maybe in retrospect? Too bad you didn't have a cell phone with you to record it.
See now that's funny. I'd have laughed too Olga!
ReplyDeleteWell, as you're demonstrating, laughter is the best medicine.
ReplyDeleteI got a call and don't think I finished my comment.
ReplyDeleteI thought the same thing. Call 911 immediately. As for laughter, it is good for the soul. It releases endorphins, dulls the pain, and elevates your mood. We should have a laugh fest. Laughter is contagious. One person laughs, and everybody laughs, too. Wonderful post!
ReplyDeleteI'm all for inappropriate laughter! Some of life's funniest things happen by mistake and at the worst times.
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