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Wednesday morning, I was walking on the beach.  The conditions were exactly what Mike always hoped to see.  As I got to his favorite shark tooth hunting territory, I was remembering how he could spend hours on such a morning scouring up and down that smallish stretch of beach.

I have found teeth before, but I was never one of the dedicated hunters.  As I walked along, I spied a small shark's tooth and picked it up.

Sorry about the quality.



Since Mike and I continue to chat, I said, "It would nice of you to toss a big one up at my feet.  You know how how I love a sign."

Don't judge until you have been there.  I really am not nearly as crazy-whacko as I may sometimes sound.

And guess what:


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  1. Linda ReederFebruary 21, 2014 at 3:14 PM

    Cool! If you want to talk to Mike, you go right ahead. In your shoes I think I would want to too. And I love it that he "responds".

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  2. MuffieFebruary 21, 2014 at 4:40 PM

    I think you got a quick response to that request! I have often talked to loved ones who have passed, and I've asked for help. Many times, I see their intervention! So, let no one stop you from such conversations!

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  3. Joan StommenFebruary 21, 2014 at 7:11 PM

    Beautiful Olga! I had this same experience finding a sand dollar on the beach; I really felt it was because of Jim and how he knew I loved beach combing! I talk to him all day long.....out loud! It helps me get through some sad days. Thank you for sharing this sweet post! I know hope his presence there with those shark teeth gave you great comfort and joy!

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  4. TaborFebruary 21, 2014 at 7:29 PM

    I am laughing with glee here. You and Mike had the perfect relationship since he still brings gifts from afar. I would not laugh AT you, but WITH you.

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  5. SextantFebruary 21, 2014 at 8:20 PM

    Lovely post. Mike is with you on these walks and you are not crazy or whacko at all.

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  6. BarbFebruary 21, 2014 at 9:28 PM

    I'm not surprised. But it is gratifying to know he's listening to you!

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  7. UnknownFebruary 21, 2014 at 10:24 PM

    I am so glad you have him to talk with. I'm sure he misses you, too.

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  8. Sally WesselyFebruary 21, 2014 at 10:53 PM

    Those signs are so cool. This one was just plain special.

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  9. CarolFebruary 22, 2014 at 12:42 AM

    You are not crazy at all --- you are blessed! You continue to talk to Mike all you want. He sure does come through with the signs that he is listening!

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  10. AnonymousFebruary 22, 2014 at 2:35 AM

    That's so wonderful. I believe in signs, too.

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  11. Jenn JilksFebruary 22, 2014 at 7:31 AM

    That IS wonderful! I believe, as well.
    (ツ) from Cottage Country Ontario , ON, Canada!

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  12. Arkansas PattiFebruary 22, 2014 at 8:39 AM

    He is not only still with you but quick on the response time. I do believe.

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  13. TomFebruary 22, 2014 at 11:27 AM

    Wow, nice. I'm sure you'll be walking on the beach every day now, which is a wonderful thing to do.

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  14. Granny AnnieFebruary 23, 2014 at 7:37 AM

    So sweet:)

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  15. Linda MyersFebruary 23, 2014 at 12:15 PM

    It's good that you and Mike are still in touch. And not at all unusual, I don't think.

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  16. KayFebruary 23, 2014 at 9:33 PM

    This is such a wonderful post, Olga! I'm glad you're able to have these conversations with Mike. Isn't it nice of him to show you that he's listening. I LOVE it!

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  17. oklhdanFebruary 23, 2014 at 9:44 PM

    Wonderful and not surprising! He's not that far away and he still talks to you! Thank you for sharing such a personal experience!

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  18. MargaretFebruary 24, 2014 at 11:26 PM

    Why it's a belated Valentine.

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